Dating conversation the ex
The next thing you know, you're projecting into the future wondering if you should ask him or her to the office holiday party. What are the rules and proper etiquette for recycling an ex at the holidays? There's no reason to compare bad date stories or wonder how many people your ex went to bed with. They simply don't need to know what happened during your hiatus. You might think the familiarity should allow you to accelerate things, but being a "Debbie or Donnie Downer" will turn him or her away faster than you can imagine.Here are five tips on how to reconnect or attend a special holiday event with your former beau or girlfriend, to make it a better experience for all involved. Ask about his or her family and how work is going, or talk about the latest accomplishments of your children. Don't assume your ex wants to get back together long-term. Avoid being overly affectionate in public the first time you see each other after a break-up.If things go well when you reunite over the holidays and you decide to start dating your ex, keep the communication going.Sending only a text message to say that you had a great time instead of calling the next day won't win her heart.Perhaps it starts off innocently in November with a text message or email saying "Happy Thanksgiving." It's a safe way to reach out and reconnect without feeling you'll get rejected by picking up the phone. There's no need to rehash the past and spend time going down memory lane. Don't talk about your dating history while you were apart.
If you're thinking of reconnecting with a former love at the holidays, you're not alone.Whatever may be the case, you may find yourself thinking about your ex or recreating a fantasy where both of you bump into each other and share a little fling or live happily ever after.Dating an ex can turn out to be the best thing in your life, if you’re trying to get back with your ex for all the right reasons.Follow @Julie Spira on Twitter and at Facebook.com/Cyber Dating Expert.Clint Eastwood and his estranged wife Dina Eastwood may be involved in a slight case of swinging spouses.